Walking on Eggshells

Walking on Eggshells

Do you feel you must be cautious around other people about what you do and say? Are you censoring your thoughts, opinions and behaviors? Ask yourself, “What is it I fear will happen if I speak my mind?” You may fear the other person’s anger, disagreement or ridicule....
Are You Talking To A Brick Wall?

Are You Talking To A Brick Wall?

With a family member or a friend, do you ever feel you are talking to the other person but he or she is not listening or responding? There are many aspects to look at within you to gain better self-understanding. What response do you want from him or her? Sometimes...
Did Your Child Throw a Tantrum Today?

Did Your Child Throw a Tantrum Today?

If your child throws tantrums it is important to know why. Tantrums can be developmentally normal for ages two to three but usually are out-grown as children learn to communicate better verbally. Consider what was going on when the tantrum occurred. Did something or...
How Much Can We Trust Our Intuition?

How Much Can We Trust Our Intuition?

People speak a lot about using their intuition, an innate and automatic assessment of truth within themselves, which they tap into to make a decision or decide a course of action. Most people place a high degree of trust and faith in their intuitive thoughts and...

Why Negotiation in Relationships Does Not Work

Since people are emotionally conditioned as very young children to be in roles that set their personality for their lifetime, their thoughts and beliefs are set early and are relatively immutable.     Each person develops ways of thinking about himself, of seeing...

This Blog Wants to Make You Think, Not Give You Advice

The purpose of this blog and website is different than self-help blogs. I do write about ideas that may be new to you, the reader. I do want to be helpful. But I want to aid your thinking and understanding of yourself and not just give advice. Advice-giving is wasted...

Ask Your Parents

What was taking place in your parents’ lives when you were conceived and born is important for your self-understanding. The environment at that time helped shape who you would become. It shaped how your parents saw you and how they would treat you as they raised you....

Look Inward to Learn

Who looks inside, awakes. — Carl Jung   Dr. Jung was a Swiss psychologist and psychotherapist. He died in 1961 at age eighty five. His life’s work was directed toward self-examination. It is by self-examination that we come to understand who we are....
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